Selasa, Desember 23, 2008
source:Adi W. Gunawan (www.adiwgunawan.com)
"The Empires of the future are the Empires of the mind"
~ Sir Winston Churchill
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Nearly all of my books, especially when I covered the key success, I always discuss about the concept of self. Why do I emphasize the importance of the concept is very self? The concept itself is a computer operating system's mental. The concept of self-determine our performance. Determine the level of self-concept level of achievement of life.
Self-concept consists of three components, namely the ideal self (ideal self), self image (self image), and the price of self (self esteem). Who is the ideal self ourselves in the future. Ideal self is our personal success. People we want to be. Self image is how we see ourselves at this time. This is about the mental picture of ourselves in today. Meanwhile, the price comparison is between self-image and self-ideal. If we lower the price themselves, the achievement of our lives, certainly low. Similarly vice versa.
Why do I write again about this topic? There is one interesting story that we can make it as a learning material. Story like this. Beginning January 2007 and we, I and my close friend Ariesandi, holding Supercamp Becoming a Money magnets. Supercamp this time attended by 31 participants from various cities. There came from Jakarta, Balikpapan, Menado, Surabaya, Samarinda, and other cities. We hold the SC with the number of participants that we are not the only limit to maintain exclusivity SC but also to be able to give the best results for the participants.
SC laden with practice and guidance to be conscious into the subconscious mind and find a mental block that hindered success. This process, into the subconscious mind, identify and destroy mental block, something that is not easy. This process is very difficult to run well if too many participants, say up to 50 people at the top. Moreover, if up to hundreds of people. Clearly it is not possible. Although there is a request that we hold the SC Akbar with the number of participants to hundreds, we remain on our principles.
There are many techniques that we use to help participants make reprogramming the conscious mind. In one session to identify mental block there are three participants who experienced the inner Conflict serious enough that it appears from their physical reactions.
One participant felt dizzy because they are blocking the energy in the region Indonesian and Chinese culture, and one female participants experienced vomiting, and the most serious is that the strain on the entire body. Special to the strain, A Bram, we give special handling, and soon.
I am sure you would feel "horror" when I read the description. However, this is actually very normal. Handling is also very easy. Of course it easy for us because we are used to therapy. Then, what happens is that the subconscious mind Bram?
Bram could see himself in the future with very clear. How appearance, apparently, tingkahnya, attitudes, how to walk, lifestyle, home, car, and what he idamkan, he can see clearly once. For some time Bram "live" in the future that is very beautiful. Future he impikan.
However, there is one part of the self Bram reject this. Bram feel part of this is not feasible or may not achieve the dream. However, on the one hand, there is one other part, from the self Bram, who really want and believe that Bram has the right and feasible to achieve any dream.
In the subconscious mind Bram contravention occurred, fierce battle, pull overextend, mutual influence between the two parts that ultimately affect physical condition. Bram experiencing convulsions. Easy handling. Only in a few minutes we successfully integrate the two parts of this conflict.
Young women who experienced vomiting another case. He knows that the conflict there. However, he tried hard to deny and convince himself that everything is ok. After vomiting and pale face the cold hands. Her husband, the SC also slightly worried. After dialiri had energy and made pemijatan dots on a certain energy in the body quickly recovered its return as usual.
Readers, I describe cases in which the case is normal that often occur in the space therapeutist practices. Are even more serious again. Conditions of this emotional paroxysm term technical abreaction. Explained to you can read my books Hypnotherapy: The Art of Subconscious Restructuring. I think a campaign to explain my new book.
Why can happen like that? In normal conditions the internal conflict is not too visible. That is visible on the effects of conflict in this particular form of behavior. For example, delaying work habits, feeling uncomfortable when a target is set to be achieved, the desire to achieve a dream, but there is a feeling themselves less valuable or less feasible to achieve that dream, or any perceived in someone who is "never good."
One of the most easy way to check whether we are in conflict or not is to check with our feelings. For example? For example, your income is Rp. 5 million. You want to reach the income of Rp. 20 million. You can visualize the achievement of very clear. However, there is a feeling uncomfortable in your heart. It feels thin difficult. Well, this is the signature of conflict. I NLP terms of people with this condition is called "not congruent."
Another example is when we give the target of learning for children. For example, the value of our children in English, only 60. We help children set a goal of, say, the value reached 90. Although children would achieve this target, you should ask the feelings of children. Is there a wedge in his heart? Is there any sense "for his good"? If so, then this means there is resistance in mind sadarnya down.
What actually happens is the child (self image) can not see himself reaching values 90 (ideal self). Because children "sure" it difficult or impossible to achieve the result, the price of the 90 children themselves will have shaking.
If you work hard to understand how self-esteem or self-concept, I will use the analogy of money. Assuming the price ourselves with the same amount of money we have. If the money we only Rp. 100000 and we want to buy goods with the price of Rp. 1,000,000 then no matter what we do, want to beg, threaten, cry, pray, kneel apply leniency seller, or any, in normal condition, we may not be able to get the goods. Experience, who want to recoup by selling goods worth Rp. 1 million in the price of Rp. 100,000?
Whatever the condition occurs when the conflict between the conscious mind (the will reach a value of Rp 90/income. 20 million) and the subconscious mind (self image; value of Rp 60/income now. 5 million), so that always win the mind is unconscious. Theory of mind that the comparative strength of mind and the unconscious conscious is 1:9.
How do I make the set target can be achieved easily? How simple, albeit not easy to do so. We must, with certain therapeutic intervention, improve self image or, if that approach can be the same with our ideal self.
One of the things that we are truly delightful Bram said that he has been experiencing increased self exceptional integration process after he experienced. What is the effect on Bram?
I very much. Friend-i said that since that time Bram become much more confident, more friendly, more active in communications, happier and more peaceful, more brave, and many other positive things. They have to know about Bram year mark can only see the changes that occurred in Bram.
Honestly, our own shocked and stunned by the changes in the self Bram. We know that this positive change happen. However, we again stunned by the strength of mind and their influence on human life.
The mind is the key to change. The mind is the key to change the children prefer chicken to be a mighty eagles flying high, which is able to explore space highway.
I remember the wise words of spiritual teacher that "the mind is the forerunner of all things, the mind is the leader, is forming the mind" and "As a man thinketh in his heart so is he."