Everything that we feel sense, taste, hear or see is processed by the mind. The world as we see it, only exists in our mind. And it is the same mind that can change the perception of how it is filtered. And how we choose to react. Its not about what happens to you in this life that counts. Because everyone goes through valleys and mountains in their lives and you are all going to go through that. To be lost in euphoria for any length of time just because you are successful is equally as redundant or as damaging as being depressed or despondent or even self destructive because you are going to be hitting on the valleys in your life. The trick is to recognize that it’s not about the incidents themselves or the environment that you live in but rather how you react to it.
Choosing how we react, being able to control, communicate and consolidate that reaction is the single most fundamental element of success in managing one’s life. Now how much can one do that? Its easy to talk about that but challenging to put into practice.
"When you have the looping, the Dreams end; there is no more greatness. - When the legend is dead, dream, dream of it also has ended; there would be no more success." ~ Tecumseh of the Shawnees
Everyone has a dream. Each person has a dream of course is different. There are dreams that have become miliarder top in the world, has a big business, have the social foundation of large and sophisticated, influential and popular in all Zagat, a distinguished professor, find a spectacular machine, a famous comedian in the world, get a life partner rich and famous and others.
Dreamland is a big thing that may be impossible if the views expressed in your current condition. But the actual dream is a step toward success is important. About whether the dream is realized or not they are in the hands of your own.
There are more quickly realize the dream, there is a slow, even some that are not successful because it does not do any steps to realize the dream. Like driving your car toward the goal namely a dream before, sometimes to more quickly or more slowly because of road conditions curvaceous, wavy or many stumbling block. Not infrequently among us never get to the destination because the only fume and condemn the condition of roads that difficult terrain or be too old to sleep on the roadside.
Generally, every last bit of the process is not so easy to follow. There are only challenges, although you have to do the best, so that the business requires repeated, and the struggle of the extra attention. The challenge is not just a failure. Even when the snow did we, the challenge is establish yourself better in a variety of things.
So do not despair easily and lose the courage to try again realize the dream. Increase your willpower. Then the door the opportunity to realize the dream will always be open.
Jonathan, my friends during high school so love the world of business and dream in life to subjugate the world. Several years later the business grew rapidly and menggurita. Wallow life success.
However, at the age of 40 he tersadar will serve in the dream world of education. So he decided to return through education. Then he successfully completed S2 and S3. Currently, he became a professor at a reputable university in Malaysia. "After seputaran girdle, and I met myself that actually. Now I start a new CIA," he said.
Actually there are many more examples of people who have achieved dreams. If they succeed, and why most of us not achieving? As I have already polecat was, the answer is because we have not implement measures to pick up the dream.
Actions that I mean to do something to build on the goal. If you can not take action more quickly, you can start slowly. But make sure you always do something to arrive at the dream.
Learning from one of my friends who saw her husband was males that success in career and love him wholeheartedly. Therefore, he is very careful propinquity select friends. Until the majority-up to friends and relatives pessimistic, because it is entering the age of 30 years, he has not found a companion.
However,'s so strong and never despair while waiting to find. In the age of 35 years after he successfully found a man who he impikan. Although a bit late, but he succeeded in getting what he really dambakan. Even now complete after the good have one son.
In addition to the action, for up to the dream also need a consistent attitude. This means you are ready to face challenges in the achievement of dreams, even if you must exit from the comfort zone. "In Dreams Begin Responsibilities. Responsibility starts from a dream," said Delmore Schwartz. Once you behave consistently, then you will always find the strength to continue the struggle to arrive at the destination.
As a friend I just decided the other, although the new age of 30 years, he has a very bright career and have a harmonious family. Successful and happy life. But he still has a dream to complete a degree in education since 7 years ago.
By pursuing the dream he does not shrink out of the comfort zone. As Jiminy Cricket said, "When your heart is your Dreams, no request is too Extreme. - When the dream is embedded in your heart, I do not feel that there is a weight to be done." Therefore, the election seemed to enjoy learning activities at a private university in Jakarta twice in one week. Arriving at the house he still menyempatkan themselves to learning. Motivasinya solely only want to pursue a dream delayed, not just looking for certification or tempted comprised more strategic position in the office after getting a degree later.
Dream may be only a mirage. But if the dream is accompanied by action, consistent attitude, and willingness to fight hard even though out of the zone must be comfortable with gratitude and prayer will make us more clever, creative and more effective life. If you want to improve productivity and quality of life, so make sure you have a dream and try to make up the maximum.
mom, hungry!, Badger small children who are in pangkuannya. The woman stared with gentle children. Heart-felt chipped slices. Does guMomg ramshackle place to live, no food at all remaining. Only there is water remaining in the vessel above the table land. Jar of diraihnya slowly and stretch out the land to the mouth of children kucunya merely wayangnya. The children try to gulp three times eliminate hunger by drinking water.
Children stared at the small face with a full sense of his mother, I feel as if you want to say thank you very deep. Small hands reach above the water limpid eyes the exit from the lid of his mother.
"Why mothers crying," ask the child gently.
Women in the long haul breath, thinking he may not explain what is deems this to small children. This is about the Momrden that life is very heavy, even he always tried hard against all the limitations that he owned.
"I do nothing, my dear, sleep alone anymore!", Said the seemingly gentle women want to create peace in the hearts of children.
The children stared in the direction of his mother's eyes, as if trying to find out the reason why his mother weeping. "I know the mother very heavy Momrden," celetuk plain that the children's mother is in a bit.
"I know with all the limitations of the mother, mother always tried to meeting all keMomtuhanku. Mother workers wash, sometimes mothers gathered the remnants waste to be sold again. I know that all mothers do so I can eat, "the child is berceloteh continue to make her mother proud.
"Momt the mother can not menyekolahkanmu son!", Replied the mother with full repentance.
"Mom!", Said the rise while the old one. Placed both hands on his mother's lap as if you want to give strength to those who most dicintainya.
"Mother menyekolahkanku not, Momt every night the mother mengajariku read, count, about, or knowledge-knowledge of the new paper from recycled newspaper that we collect. The day I understand more about the new sciences, may be even more distant from friends sebayaku, "answered the child honorable and proud.
"Yes, Momt I'm not able to menyekolahkanmu in elementary school in our village. Try if the mother is able to then later you can have a certification to continue to higher schools and the'll better, "the mother said as a whole feel has complained to her son in too.
The small children to shift duduknya right before the mother. He is very sweet smile, dipijatnya feet didepannya women. A woman was beautiful, Momt visibly older than the actual age, let alone his own life must sepeninggal her husband.
"I IMomku, with all the mothers be mothers have to provide the best for the CIA. I am grateful because I get limpahan that no counterpart. Mother always mengajariku all that I should know. Mother is always there when I need it. I really want at the elementary school in our village, Momt I would love to get it for this. I want to live been aMomndant, such as children sebayaku small, Momt the more I want to live disampingmu because I always get the affluent ruah affection for that I need.. "
While each face, that small children continue accelerate, "Mom, I love to be the same, the sincerity to realize love is far more important than a menyamakannya life with other people."
hug that woman with a loving, "sleep ahead again, the mother must rest, tomorrow we promise six half-hour at home I have to wash clothes Hadi"
A small child that the blanket kumalnya to the chest. Leaving the woman berurai tears. Momt this time not because of sadness society, precisely because that is in gratitude because God sends angels to assist small and strengthen his life.
Welcome to undergo a full day with mercy. Greet Ikhlas
Story below is a story that I can mailinglists alumni from Germany,
or U.S. citizens living or I never lived there.
It is feasible to read a few minutes, and direnungkan lifetime.
I am a mother of three children and recently completed a course
I. The last class I should take a sociology.
The Lecturers are very inspiring, with quality that I expect every
people have them.
The last task was given to the students were given the name "Smiling."
All the students are asked to go out and give senyumnya
to the three foreigners discovering and documenting the reaction
them. After that each student is asked to present
in front of the class. I was a jovial, friendly and easy
always smiling at everyone. So, I think, this task is
easy.
After receiving the assignment page, rushing to meet my husband and my children
My youngest is waiting in the garden in the campus page, go to
to McDonald's restaurants around the campus. Morning air
very cold and dry. When my husband will go in the queue,
I interrupt and ask him to accompany that while the Bungsu
find a place to sit is still empty.
When I'm in the queue, waiting to be serviced, sudden
everyone around us move away, and even the people
that all the queuing at the back exit, I take away from the queue.
A self-control feelings of panic I, when the turn and see
why all of them on breaking? When it's my turn
track a "body odor of dirty" significant relationship, it right
I stood in the back of two homeless men who are filthy!
I'm confused, and can not move at all.
When I resign, accidentally my eyes stare male
shorter, standing closer to me, and he is
"smile" to my direction. This blue-eyed men, highlight eyes
sharp, but also radiate love. He stared into my direction,
he seems to ask that I can receive a 'presence' in the place.
He greet "Good day!" while still smiling while calculating and
some coin prepared to pay for food that will
ordered. In my reply senyumnya spontaneous, and occur immediately
by my 'work' given by my lecturers. Both men are
play with the hand movements strange standing in the back of his colleagues.
I soon realized that the man was suffering both mentally defisiensi,
and the man with blue eyes is a "helper" it. I feel very
concerned after knowing that the queue is now only
I live with them, and we tiba2 only person to have in
front counter.
When the young woman at the counter to ask what I want
my message, I'm inviting both men to this book first.
Blue-eyed men immediately order the "Coffee, one cup Nona."
Coin from the fact that it is collected only able to be purchased by
they (have to be rules in restaurants here, if you want to sit in
in the restaurant and warm body, so people should buy
something). And it seems both these people only want to incite
body.
Tiba2 I just attacked by a sense of compassion that I had
glued some time, while my eyes follow the steps they
find a place to sit far apart from other tamu2, which
almost all of them are ..
At the same time, I realize that when it all
in the eyes of the restaurant are also intended to myself, and would also
see all the 'action' I am.
My new tersadar after officials at the counter to greet me
a third time to ask what I want the message. I smile
and requested the two packages provided breakfast (outside of my order) in the
separate trays.
After paying all the orders, I requested help other officers
that is counter to deliver the trays to my order
table / seat my husband and children. Meanwhile, I bring
trays other running corner circling to the table that have been selected
the second man to rest. I put the tray containing food
the above thoughts, and put my hand on the back of the
bemata cold hands of men in blue that, while I say "this food
I have a message for you both. "
Back blue eyes that stare in the direction I now begin the eye
berkaca2 wet and he was only able to say "Thank you very much,
ma'am. "I try to keep my composure, while strike
shoulder I said, "Surely not that I do this
for you, God is also around here and have whisper
something to my ear to deliver food to you. "
I heard the speech, the Blue Eyes should be no power of arrest and
Crusaders while the second man sob. At that time, I want to
merengkuh the second man.
I can not weep when I keep running
leave them and join with my husband and children,
not far from where they sit. When I sat my husband
I tried to mollify housekeeper with a smile and said,
"Now I know why God send yourself a
istriku, that, to 'calm' for myself and
anak2ku! "
We hold hands each other some time and then we benar2
grateful and realize that just because 'bisikanNYA' is our
has been able to utilize the 'opportunity' to be able to do something
for others who are in need.
When we eat food is, starting from the delegates who will
leave the restaurant and was followed by several other delegates, they
one by one approached our table, just want to 'shake
hands' with us. One of them, a father,
memegangi my hands, and say "end, this has been
to provide the expensive lesson for all of us who are here,
if given a chance when I will, I will do
as you contohkan was to us. "
I can only say "thank you" smile. Before
leave the restaurant I go to see sempatkan toward
the second man, and there seems to 'magnit' that connects bathin
we, they turn directly toward us with a smile, and
melambai2kan hands toward us. In my journey home
ponder again what I have to do the second person
homeless overnight, it benar2 'action' that never
by me.
Experience shows that day to how I 'love'
God is very warm and beautiful!
I go back to college, on the last day course with the 'story' is
in my hands. I submit a 'paper' I have to my lecturers. And
the next day, before I start the course called lecturers
to the front of my class, he saw to me and said, "Can I
ceritamu distribute this to others? "I'm happy with the
uses.
When will he start the course ask for the attention of the class
I read the paper. He began to read, the siswapun
listen carefully to the stories of the lecturers, and lecture room
to be deserted. With the way and style of the lecturers in
, telling the story, students present in the room
course that seems to follow indeed to see how the event
progress, so that the students who sit in the back row in the
I close them come in to hug me
harunya feelings.
At the end of reading the paper, the lecturer deliberately close
with the story, the one sentence that I write at the end
my paper.
"Tersenyumlah with the 'heart', and you will know
how 'terrible' impact caused by the green. "
With their own way, God has' use 'to myself
touch people in the McDonald's, my husband, son,
guruku, and each student who attended the lecture last night in
I as a freshman. I graduated with 1 lesson largest
that I never get anywhere on the course, namely:
"WITHOUT RECEIVING TERMS."
Many stories about love that can be written for diresapi
by the readers, but for anyone who had read
and that sure the story is expected to take lessons
how loving other, BY USING
SEDIKIT property's, and not MENCINTAI
PROPERTY-OWNED fees WE ARE NOT, BY USING
SESAMA!
If you think that this story has touched your heart,
continue to this story orang2 nearest you. Here are 'angels'
that will accompany you, so at least people who read
This story will be the heart to do something
(not) for a fellow who is need help
hands!
Wise people say: Many people who come and go from
life, but only 'a wise friend' who will
leave the Network in hearts.
To interact with yourself, use nalarmu. But for
interact with others, use the cafe! Who
lose money, will lose a lot, people who lose
friends, will lose more! But people who lose
confidence, will lose everything! God will ensure
to give each animal food for them, but
He does not throw food into their lair,
animals that remain tend to be able to get it.
Young people are 'beautiful' is a work of nature,
but those parents' beautiful 'is a work of art.
Learn from their experience, because you do not
can live long enough to be able to get all of that
from the experience of yourself
